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jacki
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  2:39:42 PM  Show Profile  Send jacki an AOL message  Click to see jacki's MSN Messenger address Bookmark this topic Add jacki to your friends list Send jacki a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Hello, first of all thank you for reading this. Secondly if you can't help or want to judge please don't make hurtful or unuseful comments, this is a serious situation. My friend has had some serious health issues in the last year onto of her marrige breakdown a few years ago. She has been struggling and has sold or given away all of her arabs in the hope of keeping her stallion who she's had since he was 5 months old! He is her pride n joy and best friend. Her finances havnt improved and she now finds herself in a position wher she can only afford his livery ect for 1 more month. He has been advertised in various places but she's had no interest except one person suggesting she put him to sleep! He is a true gentleman easy to do loving a brilliant ride and loves in hand showing too. His foals are stunning. He has always placed from county to international level and also makes a fab riding horse and stable mate.

If anyone can help or take him on loan for 2 years to allow him to enjoy life while my friend sorts herself out please can you pm me or post ideas on here.

The stallion is Eldor by Eldon Ex Tahirah

Thanks in advance
Jacki + Anne + Eldor

sittingbourne kent
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Nut
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  2:45:16 PM  Show Profile  Click to see Nut's MSN Messenger address Bookmark this reply Add Nut to your friends list Send Nut a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I think Anne knows I love this chap alot and if wishes were horses would take him straight away but no stallions allowed on our yard. Truly hoping he finds a lovely home, if he is even half as wonderful as his brother that I sadly lost 5 years now someone will be very lucky to have him.

Love to Anne xx

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natntaz
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  2:46:50 PM  Show Profile  Click to see natntaz's MSN Messenger address  Send natntaz a Yahoo! Message Bookmark this reply Add natntaz to your friends list Send natntaz a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Such a shame, i would think if he were a gelding he
would be taken but unfortunatly stallions are a no no
on most yards.

Wishing your friend luck and hope someone can help
here in her situation x



Natalie Pix. Essex. Tariq ibn Radfan and Taroub
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Callisto
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  2:57:05 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add Callisto to your friends list Send Callisto a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Truely hope someone can help - this must be every owner's worst nightmare. Unfortunately we don't have the facilities for another horse.

Zahkira (GR Amaretto x Taffetta)
Linda
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george
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  3:05:48 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add george to your friends list Send george a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I sincerely hope somebody can help them, she obviously loves this horse, you just never know what's around the corner in life and it could happen to anyone. Truly hope things turn out for the best, surely somebody has room for a couple of years?? lets hope so.

George xxx
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Pop
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  3:16:04 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add Pop to your friends list Send Pop a Private Message  Reply with Quote
The owner sounds like a very nice lady;and its so refreshing to hear of the absolute dedication to her horses; and that she rejects PTS. The horses always deserve help, but this lady sounds like she really deserves help. I so hope someone is able to help her, and that she gets him back one day.

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nikki83
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  4:11:30 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add nikki83 to your friends list Send nikki83 a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I really hope someone can help. Unfortunately for those on livery yards, stallions are usually a no no.
I have an Eldon grandson :-) please keep us posted on anymore news.
Nikki x
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Kazzy
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  4:17:59 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add Kazzy to your friends list Send Kazzy a Private Message  Reply with Quote
How distressing for your friend. Is gelding him not an option,like has been said he would probably be easier to re home on a temporary basis for 2 years than a stallion, howver well behaved they are some livery yards say NO NO NO and dont even know what they are like, also the breeding game isnt at its best at the moment.

I Know once they are off they cant be put back on but its worth her thinking baout.

Sorry I cant help, and I genuinely hope shje finds someone for her beloved horse. It can or could happen to any of us.

Janet



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jacki
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  4:55:16 PM  Show Profile  Send jacki an AOL message  Click to see jacki's MSN Messenger address Bookmark this reply Add jacki to your friends list Send jacki a Private Message  Reply with Quote
If someone were to take him I'm sure Anne would allow him to be gelded but it would need to be done at the vets due to his age and the fact he has been used. Again financially Anne is not in a position to geld him herself. Ive asked her but I'm sure if someone wanted to take him on and geld him that would be an option! As long as he was fully insured. We appreciate all the good vibes, thank you, please ask your horsey friends too if they know of anyone who may be able to help.

Edited as I've asked about gelding, and to correct my terrible spelling.

sittingbourne kent

Edited by - jacki on 04 Mar 2011 5:48:17 PM
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LadyLuck1
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  4:59:57 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add LadyLuck1 to your friends list Send LadyLuck1 a Private Message  Reply with Quote
This is so sad I hope she finds him a loving home until she is back on her feet.
Mary
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saddlebred
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  5:12:31 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add saddlebred to your friends list Send saddlebred a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I havent got the facilities or experience for a stallion but I really hope that your friend finds someone soon. I will put some feelers out.

Based Bewdley Worcs
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birdof1977
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  6:20:46 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add birdof1977 to your friends list Send birdof1977 a Private Message  Reply with Quote
What an awful position to be in for your friend. But as others have said. Stallions are a No no on most yards. I'm sure someone on here might be able to take him though???

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alison
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  7:05:43 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add alison to your friends list Send alison a Private Message  Reply with Quote
This a wonderful horse who has had the very best all his life, and has been well loved. I'm sure he would make someone a great riding horse and new best friend. I am sure he will find a suitable home as he is so stunning.
Good Luck
Alison
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phoenixbruka
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  7:23:26 PM  Show Profile  Visit phoenixbruka's Homepage Bookmark this reply Add phoenixbruka to your friends list Send phoenixbruka a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Im crossing everything someone has a space somewhere for a beautiful boy

I understand what people are saying about gelding him... but in reality iit would take a good 12 months for his hormones to settle down so it wouldnt make any difference for turn out etc

Hopfully somneone will grab the opportunity to add a line to their stud

good luck

susie


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Smiler
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  7:34:25 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add Smiler to your friends list Send Smiler a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Is he on a yard ? was just thinking is there no one that would take him on loan etc but keep him where he is ? is he in livery ? if so is there not a small field your friend could rent would be cheaper till she can spread the word a bit more ?


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pinkvboots
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  8:48:25 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add pinkvboots to your friends list Send pinkvboots a Private Message  Reply with Quote
She must be heart broken, maybe a breeder might take him for a few years? if I hear of anyone that can help I will let you know. good luck.

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jacki
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  8:57:23 PM  Show Profile  Send jacki an AOL message  Click to see jacki's MSN Messenger address Bookmark this reply Add jacki to your friends list Send jacki a Private Message  Reply with Quote
Hi he is on a private yard with 3 other horses so no-one there! We have had ads up for a hood few week from tack shops to online sites. Eldor has always been stabled and although he may live it's not fair to move him away from home and then move him again. He is a loving sensitive horse and loves routine and affection.

sittingbourne kent
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rifruffian
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  9:43:36 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add rifruffian to your friends list Send rifruffian a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I looked on the sales page here but I was not able to identify him. What is the age and the height of the horse ?
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stuart
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  9:50:57 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add stuart to your friends list Send stuart a Private Message  Reply with Quote
riffruffian........... the stallion is at the top of the Stallion page.......entitled Eldor........!

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Vera
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  10:10:24 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add Vera to your friends list Send Vera a Private Message  Reply with Quote
This is so sad, I know Anne and she's one the nicest people you could ever meet. I admire her for loving Eldor so much she's prepared to do let him go.

I have everything crossed that Eldor finds the loving home he deserves and Anne finds peace of mind she deserves.


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barbara.gregory
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  11:15:54 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add barbara.gregory to your friends list Send barbara.gregory a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I too know Anne and Eldor and wish I had room for another stallion but with four of my own I don't have the stables or paddocks for another one. I am trying to find someone who would give him a good home but times are hard at the momennt.

If he was going for longer it may be easier to find him a home but for someone to geld him but, realistically, have a stallion for a year, and then have a gelding for a year would be difficult and there is not just the problem of having a stallion but having the considerable cost of having him gelded.

He is a lovely horse and Anne is a lovely person; I am sure there is someone who can help.

Barbara

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Cate
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Posted - 04 Mar 2011 :  11:32:39 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add Cate to your friends list Send Cate a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I do hope someone can come to the rescue. Such a sad situation and such a shame that stallions are always viewed as being a problem. Things I fear are set to become harder for us all with the way the economy is going. There will be someone out there I'm sure.

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jacki
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Posted - 05 Mar 2011 :  4:35:28 PM  Show Profile  Send jacki an AOL message  Click to see jacki's MSN Messenger address Bookmark this reply Add jacki to your friends list Send jacki a Private Message  Reply with Quote
2 years isn't fixed it's more of a minimum to give Anne a chance to really sort herself out so when Eldor does come home it's for good to a happy secure home for the rest if his days! Any offers or ideas will be considered as long as he is well cared for and warm ( he doesn't like to be cold) .
Thank you for your good wishes, ideas and pms So far nothing has been sorted so please keep the feelers out

Xxx

sittingbourne kent
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Milotkha
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Posted - 05 Mar 2011 :  5:47:30 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add Milotkha to your friends list Send Milotkha a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I wish Anne the very best in finding Eldor the best home and sorting herself out.

I am going through the exact same thing at the moment with my mare. I have been very lucky, Jan 2010 she went to stay with very good friends of mine to help me out and so I could sort my finances out, but unfortunately, I am not in the position I had hoped I would be in, and have made the heart breaking decision to sell Mila. I truly hope this doesn't happen with Anne and Eldor.

Thinking of her through this very hard time.

Kim x


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Zenitha
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Posted - 05 Mar 2011 :  8:12:32 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add Zenitha to your friends list Send Zenitha a Private Message  Reply with Quote
There but for the grace of God go any of us.......my heart truly goes out to this lovely lady. I so hope Eldor finds a wonderful temporary home, and that he can eventually be reunited with this lady who obviously loves him so much. So very sad


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barbara.gregory
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Posted - 05 Mar 2011 :  10:23:24 PM  Show Profile Bookmark this reply Add barbara.gregory to your friends list Send barbara.gregory a Private Message  Reply with Quote
I do hope there is someone out there who can take him. Unfortunately as I lost my job in the recession I can't afford to have another stallion paddock fenced off and mobile stable put up.

Anne, I do hope things work out for you and the lovely Eldor.

Barbara

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