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Milotkha
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 Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 1:04:56 PM
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Hello All.
I havent been on here for a long time, for one reason or another.
Many of you will know that last year I made the decision to send my much loved mare, Mila, away for a while, whilst I sorted out my finances. I was very lucky to have the help from good friends, and Milas breeders, Liz and Walter Downes, and Mila went to live back at Valentine Arabians.
It took me a good 3 months to clear my overdraft and any charges that I occurred. I then moved in with my boyfriend, and inorder to bring Mila home, Chris asked me to live with him rent free. I then used my spare money each month to buy all what I needed for Mila to come home. I got myself a new job on a higher wage, and had milas new stable and transport awaiting her home coming. 2 weeks before she was due home… I lose my job..!! Right, so I pick myself back up and get on the job hunt. After about 3 months, I get myself a job. I have now been in my new job for 2 months, but not on the same wage as before. Chris and I have also decided that this year, we would like to move into a house together (we are currently living in a caravan on a holiday/permanent camping site) I also have a large amount of money owing in debts…. Which I regret every day.
It was my plan to have a cushion of money ready for Mila to come home…. but taking all of my personal circumstances into account – I have come to realise that I just cannot afford her anymore. Therefore I have come to the heart breaking decision to sell Mila, and to find her a special new friend who will give her a home where she will be loved and cared for just as much as she would be with me.
Liz and Walter have been there for me the whole way through my ownership of Mila. They have given me priceless guidance and knowledge, and many a shoulder to cry on throughout my recent situation, I am so very grateful for their support and understanding. Liz and Walter are now in need of Milas stable as they are due a foal, and Milas stable is needed for the foal once he/she is weaned. I have plenty of time to find her a new home, and I cannot thank them enough for all they have done to help me.
I cant put into words how I am feeling…. Mila is my life and I love her dearly. I just hope she knows how much I love her and that I never intended for us to part.
Kim
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Callisto
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 1:10:18 PM
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| I am so very sorry that it has come to this, but at least you have the courage to admit that you cannot afford to carry on. Nobody knows what is around the corner as far as employment is concerned, and financial problems can build up very quickly. I am sure you will find a lovely new home for her. Good luck. |
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Ellas room maid
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 1:21:46 PM
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Hi Kim,
So sorry your plans didn't bear fruit after all you went through last year. I am CERTAIN of one thing - you will do your utmost to find Mila a fantastic new home. I will be thinking of you both and hope you get sorted out soon - Mila is such a lovely mare and she is a credit to you.
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Claire
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 1:27:56 PM
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| I am so sorry to read this, I'm sure that you'll find her a lovely home and hopefully be able to keep in touch. My thoughts are with both you and Mila xx |
      
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Milotkha
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 1:35:25 PM
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Thank you for all your kind words of support.
Angie - Thank you :-) I hope you and Ella are both ok.
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Ellas room maid
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 1:51:24 PM
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Hi Kim,
Ella is great, going to have her backed in March - then the fun begins!
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Milotkha
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 1:57:17 PM
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| Hehe... I am sure she will suprise you...!! xx |
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Kazzy
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 2:01:13 PM
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How sad for you. At least you are being a responsible owner and I an sure you will find her a lovley home.
Good luck.
Janet
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LadyLuck1
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 5:09:14 PM
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So sorry it has come to this I wish you every success in finding a perfect home.
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alison
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 5:16:45 PM
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Hi Kim, you have certainly tried your best and must be commended on being a responsible owner. She looks a stunning mare and I'm sure who ever buys her will be very lucky. Full praise as you say must also go to Liz and Walter for being 'just great understanding people' well done.
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nikki83
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Posted - 12 Jan 2011 : 8:17:09 PM
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Hi Kim,
Sorry to hear that you have to make this decision :-(
Im sure you will find her a great new home where she will be loved and treasured and you will know you have made the right choice. Best of luck with it all.
Nikki x |
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alpacastoo
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Posted - 13 Jan 2011 : 10:50:16 AM
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| Sorry to hear this, but you are still doing your best. Good wishes to you both and your boyfriend. Let's hope 2011 is better for us all! |
  
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lisa rachel
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Posted - 13 Jan 2011 : 11:11:15 AM
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I saw Mila last night on the sales pages and my heart sank, I know from your posts how hard it has been for you and I am really very sorry for you Kim. At least you are being realistic and responsible about this sad situation and have her best interests at heart.
My very best wishes in finding a great home for your beloved mare.
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Milotkha
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Posted - 13 Jan 2011 : 11:36:51 AM
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Thank you all for the support and comfort.
I still feel like this is all a bad dream and I will wake up to find Mila in her old stable here in Leicester. It’s been such a whirl wind year. I know I have done all I can to make sure she is happy, I couldn’t have done anymore to try and bring her back. My focus now is to find her the best home that I can.
I will keep you updated.
Kim
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nissibay
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Posted - 13 Jan 2011 : 7:06:20 PM
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Hello kim, so sorry things didnt work out.... i hope she finds a lovely home where you can visit... we could all find ourselves in this situation at any time..so i really do wish u and mila all the best, if your ever passing and you fancy metting Lady V just drop me a line... take care xxxx |
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Timbercroft
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Posted - 13 Jan 2011 : 8:31:37 PM
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Sorry to read this Kim but you have tried so hard and are still doing the right thing by finding her a loving home...wish we had the room for her as she is a lovely looking mare!
Best of luck Kim ..the right home is out there!
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Milotkha
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Pasha
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Posted - 14 Jan 2011 : 1:38:31 PM
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| Don't feel bad! You have done your best for this mare which is all anyone can do! I am sure you will find her a lovely home x |
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basbob
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Posted - 14 Jan 2011 : 4:57:49 PM
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| That is such a sad story. I so hope she finds a loving home. |
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I am sorry Mila
